When Grieving, Become the Observer

When Grieving, Become the Observer

On December 17, 2010, my son Mike ended his life on this planet. Yes, he died of suicide. And so began my journey of walking the path of grief into healing. Now this walk is not one that any of us have chosen. Many were hurled here without warning, those that did have...

Suicide Grief, Why, Their Suicide Death IS NOT Your Fault

Suicide grief. Complicated doesn’t begin to express the experience, the thoughts feelings, the questions, and the guilt. So often we tell ourselves that we should have been able to stop this – somehow. I want to say, again and again, their death by suicide...
Listen, Just Listen

Listen, Just Listen

Grievers need to share their story. Often, the most meaningful gift you can offer is to listen, just listen. Listen to hear. Listen to understand. Listen because grievers need to share their stories and when you are able to be there and simply allow them to be heard,...